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What I Wish I Knew Before Dating a Filipina

Honest advice from men who have been there: culture shock, family involvement, communication differences, and what really matters when dating a Filipina.

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FAQ: Is it true that Filipinas are more traditional than Western women? Many Filipinas hold traditional values around family and relationships, but this varies by individual. The key is not to assume — get to know her as a person.

FAQ: Do I need to ask her family for permission to date her? Not necessarily for dating, but showing respect to her family early on matters a lot. Family approval becomes important as the relationship gets serious.

FAQ: How do Filipinas communicate differently in relationships? Filipino communication is often indirect. A polite "yes" might mean "maybe" or "I don't want to say no." Learning to read between the lines takes time.

FAQ: What is "Filipino time"? It is a relaxed approach to punctuality common in the Philippines. Being 15-30 minutes late to social events is normal. It is not personal, just cultural.

FAQ: Should I expect her to send money to her family? Many Filipinas feel a sense of responsibility toward their family, especially if she is the primary earner. Discussing expectations early prevents misunderstandings.